Episode 114-Essential Parenting Tips for New Dads
On this week's episode of Sense, by Meg Faure, we explore the essential elements and tips of fatherhood. Meg Faure, an occupational therapist and parenting expert, interviews Craig Wilkinson, a prominent figure in fatherhood advocacy in South Africa. Craig shares his journey, insights, and practical advice on building strong relationships between fathers and their children. This episode is a must-listen for new dads, moms, and anyone interested in the pivotal role of fathers. The Role of Fathers Craig Wilkinson emphasizes the critical role fathers play in their children's lives. Fathers are pivotal in shaping their children's identity and sense of worth. He discusses the impact of fatherlessness, highlighting its correlation with various social issues. Fathers must be present, engaged, and nurturing to foster healthy development. Foundational Elements of Fatherhood Craig outlines two foundational elements crucial for fatherhood. First, fathers must work on themselves, addressing their own issues and becoming the men they want their sons to become. Second, fathers need to spend quality time with their children, being fully present and engaged. Time and presence are the greatest gifts a father can give. Balancing Strength and Sensitivity Craig discusses the dual nature of masculinity, combining strength with sensitivity. Boys need to be strong yet gentle, learning to handle their emotions and vulnerabilities. Fathers must model this balance, showing their sons how to be both warriors and poets. This duality is essential for healthy masculinity. The Impact on Daughters Craig highlights the unique role fathers play in their daughters' lives. Fathers are their daughters' first love and set the standard for future relationships. A father's affirmation and love help daughters develop a strong sense of self-worth. Fathers must pursue their daughters' hearts, showing them they are valued and cherished. Advice for New Dads Craig offers practical advice for new dads, encouraging them to seek help and work on themselves. He stresses the importance of supporting their partners and maintaining a strong marital relationship. Fathers must be loving, nurturing, and present, building a solid foundation for their children's future. Listeners should tune in to this episode to gain valuable insights into the crucial role of fathers. Craig Wilkinson's wisdom and experience provide practical advice for new dads and highlight the importance of fatherhood. This episode offers a blend of inspiration and practical tips, making it an essential listen for parents and those interested in family dynamics.